DURING THESE FINAL DAYS of October, when the sun blazes warmth into crisp days and leaves fall and pumpkins lie exposed in fields, vines withered, there’s a rush to pack in final autumn fun. And I did just that Sunday afternoon at Larson’s Bridgewater Farm on the northwest edge of Northfield.
Here, on this working farm turned pumpkin patch destination, Randy and I joined our eldest and her family, among many multi-generational families focused on an experience that certainly beats picking pumpkins from a retail store display. This is all about connecting to each other and to the land. And this is all about building memories that remain long after the last pumpkin has gone into the compost pile.
I observed so many smiles, so much joy, so much exuberance. I remember thinking, as I cozied next to my daughter Amber at the back of a flatbed wagon pulled by a John Deere tractor, that life doesn’t get much better than this. Here we were, strangers crammed onto wagon benches, bumping around the farm, past the cattle and pole sheds and cornfields under a clear, sunny October sky. It was as if nothing existed beyond this acreage. I felt overwhelming peace, a surge of serenity in the simplicity of the moment.
Perhaps my farm background factored into my personal reaction. The sight of dried cornfields, the scent of manure, the fenced beef cattle and calves (especially the calves), the stacked hay bales, the tread of tractor tires embedded in mud, the old John Deere tractor (a photo op backdrop), all proved nostalgically uplifting.
I doubt my grandchildren noticed any of this, except perhaps the barnyard smell. Izzy, 7, and Isaac, 4, were too busy enjoying the many kid-based activities offered at Bridgewater Farm. Twice they rode the barrel train that looped through a machine shed holding hay, past the livestock and then back. They climbed weathered bales stacked high, slides zooming them back to ground level. They twisted through the kids’ corn maze with us, their parents later following the more challenging adult version, which the grandparents opted out of to oversee the kids as they climbed the haystacks once again and then moved on to the corn box.
The kids’ hands-down favorite seemed to be the corn pit, where they shoveled kernels, filled pails, covered themselves in corn. Again, memories rushed back. Not of playing in shelled corn. But of decades ago farm work, of pushing wheelbarrows full of ground corn down the barn aisle to feed the cows. My grandchildren will never know that rural life, only the stories I share with them of yesteryear, of when Grandma was growing up on the farm.
I enticed them to pet the silky ear of a goat before we headed away from the fenced goats and sheep to take posed photos at the seasonally-themed photo cut-outs. I didn’t take many photos during our afternoon outing, choosing to enjoy being in the moment without the distraction of photography. I left my 35mm camera at home. Intentionally. The daughter snapped plenty of images with her cellphone.
When we pedaled kid-sized and adult-sized tricycles (yes, me and the other adults, too, except for the too-tall son-in-law) around the trike race track, I remembered a black-and-white photo taken of me as a teen riding my youngest brother’s trike on my childhood farm, long legs bent awkwardly to the side, broad smile across my face. I smiled just as wide at Bridgewater Farm, my long legs bent awkwardly as I raced after my granddaughter peddling with her long legs bent awkwardly.
Soon the grandkids were pulling a wagon to the pumpkin patch. And when they weren’t looking, Grandpa scooted on and the pulling halted and they turned to see us all laughing. Eventually we found just the right pumpkins hefted from the pumpkin patch, weighed and then loaded into the car.
What a fun-filled afternoon on the farm—one of nostalgia for me, but more importantly of experiencing simple joys with my family. And it all started with the kids wanting to go to a pumpkin patch.
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FYI: Pumpkin patch season is winding down in Minnesota. Bridgewater Farm is offering special MEA hours this Thursday and Friday from noon to 5 pm. Otherwise the farm is open only on weekends, October 28-29 being the final weekend with hours from 11 am – 6 pm. Admission to the pumpkin patch is free with a $10/person cost for all activities, excluding apple cannon shooting. That costs an additional fee. Pumpkins are sold both pick-your-own or pre-picked.
TELL ME: Do you have a favorite pumpkin patch in Minnesota or elsewhere. Let’s hear where and why it’s a favorite.
© Copyright 2023 Audrey Kletscher Helbling
Minnesota Prairie Roots 
life is all about the shared simple pleasures and experiences – looks like a wonderful place
Exactly. It’s the moments, the experiences, not the things, that matter most. Yesterday we were with our grandchildren so their parents could attend parent-teacher conferences. Upon our arrival, Isaac handed me an envelope upon which was written “GRANDMA FROM ISAAC.” And then on the flip side, “HONNY.” Inside the envelope were squares of green paper he cut. Not sure what the scraps of paper mean, other than green is my favorite color. But I loved everything about this gift from my 4-year-old grandson.
the 3s and 4s are very proud and excited when they’ve begun to master the scissors. their fine motor is not really ready before that. I’d say the cuttings, and their color, are a tribute gift, for how special you are to him.
Aww, thank you, Beth. You’ve helped explain those green bits of paper Isaac so lovingly cut and placed inside an envelope for me. Oh, how I will treasure this gift from my grandson.
I love pumpkin patches like this. Around here Apple orchards are probably more popular but it’s the same type of experience. Pure joy and fun!
It was exactly that. Any time with the grandkids is pure joy and fun.
What a fun day! So glad you could do this together.
Me, too!
Audrey, I absolutely loved everything about this post! So much joy and contentment in your words. What a fun fall adventure for you all. BTW I think the photo of you and Randy is adorable!
I have to say we never did the “Pumpkin patch” thing, either as a kid growing up, or with my kids. With that being said, both of my married kids take their families every year to the pumpkin patch. Your grands are stretching out, they grow too fast don’t they.
Thank you, Jackie. I’ve read so many similar stories on your blog. Yes, I love that pic of Randy and me. We didn’t do pumpkin patches either. I don’t recall them being a thing when our kids were growing up. And there certainly weren’t pumpkin patches when I was a kid. Just like your grands, mine are growing up too. Izzy is incredibly tall for her age of seven.
I’m glad I’m not the only one that didn’t know that pumpkin patches were a thing 🤪! I was going to mention how tall is he has gotten, it’s funny how they grow in spurts isn’t it?
Our childhood pumpkins came from our garden. Our kids’ pumpkins came from either the store or a local vegetable grower or orchard.
Sounds like you had a fun day, with beautiful blue skies and crisp fall air.
It was a wonderful afternoon at Bridgewater for many reasons.
Fall Family FUN 🙂 We grew pumpkins growing up so had the pumpkin patch right in the back of the farm. My dad loved handing out pumpkins to the local kids that lived near the farm. Sometimes we would get apples or honey or baked goods in exchange for a few additional pumpkins too. Then with not having the farm anymore I took my nephews to the local pumpkin patch and corn maze type of places when they were little. They would be so hopped up on excitement, pumpkins, and treats – ha! Such great memories and creating those traditions too. Happy Day – Enjoy
Thank you for sharing your pumpkin patch memories. What a generous heart your dad had. And you, too, to take your nephews to the pumpkin patch. Family fun and memories galore.
I don’t have a favorite pumpkin patch, but our local Ace Hardware, just down the street from us, has trailers of pumpkins from somewhere nearby. I’m going there tomorrow with my granddaughter Camille to pick out pumpkins for our family to carve together next weekend. This is a family tradition – the carving of the pumpkins. It’s one of my favorite things! My son the artist always makes a really interesting one.
I remember you writing about this family tradition. Would love to see photos of some of those pumpkins on your blog.
I’ll see what I can do!
Excellent! I look forward to your post.