
WHEN ROBERTA FLACK SANG, her words flowed effortlessly. Soothing. Her voice like poetry singing words of love.
Flack died today (Monday) at age 88, news which pulled me back to the early 1970s and her Grammy award-winning singles, “The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face” (1973) and “Killing Me Softly With His Song” (1974). I love those two hits of new love and of love exposed.
I filed through my vintage 45 rpm vinyls until I found Flack’s, then dropped the record onto the turntable to once again immerse myself in feelings of young love. I was in high school when Flack’s singles released and then became Billboard hits.
The songs are universal in theme, undeniably beautiful in delivery. At least that’s my perspective as a Baby Boomer who can’t read a single musical note, can’t carry a tune and knows she likes a song when she likes it.
The timing of Flack’s death during February, Black History Month, seems worth noting, too. She accomplished much as a Black woman. At the age of 15, Flack received a full scholarship to Howard University, a historically Black private college in Washington DC. She earned a bachelor’s in music in 1958, going on to teach music while also pursuing a singing career. Clearly, she accomplished her goals.
In researching her background, I learned of a 2023 children’s picture book autobiography, The Green Piano: How Little Me Found Music, written by Flack and by Tonya Bolden with illustrations by Hayden Goodman. The title references a piano Flack’s father found in a junkyard, then refurbished and painted a grassy green. Flack was nine years old when she got that first piano. That it came from a junkyard reminds me of the bicycles my maternal grandfather pulled from the junkyard, repaired, painted and gifted to me and my siblings. I was just as thrilled to have my own bike as Flack was to have her own piano.
Flack’s backstory of growing up in a family that valued music and recognized her talent is a love story, too. If only every child would be loved so deeply and encouraged to follow his/her dreams, what a beautiful world this could be.
TELL ME: Whose music do you appreciate and why? And if you remember Roberta Flack, I’d like to hear your thoughts on her and her work.
© Copyright 2025 Audrey Kletscher Helbling


I really liked Roberta Flack’s music back in the day. I still do but don’t get to hear it very often. It was so mellow and she had a beautiful voice.
“Mellow” certainly fits Roberta Flack’s voice as does beautiful. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on her music.
Roberta Flack’s voice echoed through my mind the minute I read your first sentence. Thank you.
You are welcome, Ken. She had a memorable voice, didn’t she?
I was sad to hear of her passing, she truly was one of a kind. Roberta’s voice, was like soulful warm honey to my ears and reached all the way to my heart. beautiful, beautiful songs –
I really like your description of “soulful warm honey.”
Sad….
Yes, she was a talented musician.
I always loved these two songs you highlighted as well— another legend from our younger years is gone . Thanks for sharing.
It was fun to pull out my 45 and listen to Flack’s beautiful voice.
I remember those Roberta Flack songs. Didn’t like them at the time – I was a kid who loved hard rock and psychedelic rock and a lot of those old songs still resonate for me (Led Zeppelin, anyone?). I appreciate Flack’s work now, though. She did indeed have a beautiful voice and the two songs that were most popular are poignant. I listen to a lot of different music, especially jazz and blues and punk, depending on my mood or the day. I have stuff I love to listen to while driving, a different playlist for writing, another for cooking, and they’re all different styles of music. Music complements whatever I’m feeling in the moment.
It sounds like you are quite well-rounded in music. Good to hear from you, Kathleen.
honestly I had never heard of her but after reading your post I recognized the “killing me softly” song. I have heard that one several times. I will have to see if I can find some of her music online to listen to while cleaning later today.
You are younger than me, which is likely why Roberta Flack was unfamiliar. Enjoy. The music. Cleaning is never fun.