Minnesota Prairie Roots

Writing and photography by Audrey Kletscher Helbling

Celebrating the Bode family heritage August 20, 2009

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Photo copies of my great grandparents, Karl and Anna Bode, were displayed at the Bode family reunion on August 16 in Courtland, Minnesota.

Photo copy portraits of my great grandparents, Karl and Anna Bode, were displayed at the Bode family reunion on August 16 in Courtland, Minnesota.

This stained glass window is among many from the old church building incorporated into Immanuel Lutheran's new house of worship.

This stained glass window is among many from the old church building incorporated into Immanuel Lutheran's new house of worship.

Voices raised in unison, we sang, “God’s Word is our great heritage and shall be ours forever… Lord, grant while worlds endure, we keep its teachings pure through-out all generations.”

While we sang this hymn, accompanied by the same pipe organ that has graced Immanuel Lutheran Church in rural Courtland for 114 years, I sensed the presence of those who had gone before us. In the music, in the stained glass windows, in the polished pews, I felt the closeness of family.

“You have a great heritage of faith,” said the Rev. Wayne Bernau, as he welcomed those of us gathered for worship this past Sunday morning. Afterwards, we would meet for a Bode family reunion in a day of food and talk and sharing of our history, here, upon this soil where our forefathers settled, farmed the land, built this country church, and now lay buried in the adjacent cemetery.

The pastor read, his tongue tripping over the German words inscribed upon the tombstones of my maternal great-great and great grandparents. I strained to hear and understand the German I had once learned, had spoken, had now mostly forgotten, this, the native tongue of my ancestors.

Later, in the cemetery, several of us would try to decipher the German: “Das blut Jesu Christi des Sohnes Gottes macht uns rein von aller sünde.” The blood of Jesus Christ, the son of God, makes us clean from all our sins.

We gave up trying to translate a bible verse from the book of Psalms and instead laughed, then apologized to our great-great grandparents, Karl and Luise Bode, for our language lapse. We posed for a photo behind their tombstone, laughing some more, hoping they appreciated our joyfulness, even in a graveyard.

Again, that closeness of family prevailed, as we recited the books of the bible in an effort to determine the source of another gravestone verse. Recitation. Good Lutherans remembering their memory work, just like the good Lutherans before us.

And then, across the grass we walked, past numerous tombstones chiseled with the Bode name. Bodes everywhere. Some from our branch of the family; some from others.

We paused before the graves of Karl and Anna Bode, our great grandparents. More photos.

And then, a snake skin discovered, picked up. The mood turned playful as a slithering baby garter snake was snatched from the grass, passed around to some, shunned by others. Again, we felt, not disrespectful, but embracing of grandparents who likely would have valued our humor.

Later, we sat elbow-to-elbow beside our Bode relatives, dining on grilled pork chops, potatoes and an assortment of other food. Then, for dessert, the absolutely perfect choice—ice cream with “skunk cookies.”

Fudge-striped cookies to most. But to those of us who are the grandchildren and great grandchildren of Lawrence and Josephine Bode, “skunk cookies,” a name derived from the chocolate stripes that slice through the store-bought cookies grandpa always kept in his kitchen after grandma’s death.

Memories. Family. Blessings.

Heritage through-out all generations, shared on a Sunday afternoon in August at Immanuel Lutheran Church, rural Courtland, during a reunion of about 150 Bode family members.

A snippet of a photo from the July 1938 family reunion in Courtland attended by 511 Bodes. My grandparents, Lawrence and Josephine Bode, are in the center of the picture, between the adults holding the babies.

A snippet of a photo from the July 1938 family reunion in Courtland attended by 511 Bodes. My grandparents, Lawrence and Josephine Bode, are near the center of the picture, between the adults holding the babies.

Bode family members, including me, behind the letter "B," gather around the grave of my great-great grandparents, Karl and Luise Bode.

Bode family members, including me behind the letter "B," gather around the grave of my great-great grandparents, Karl and Luise Bode.

Immanuel Lutheran Cemetery, rural Courtland, is filled with the gravestones of many Bodes. This particular Bode tombstone does not belong to one of my direct relatives.

Immanuel Lutheran Cemetery, rural Courtland, is filled with the gravestones of many Bodes.

© Copyright 2009 Audrey Kletscher Helbling

(Return to my blog for more photos of Immanuel Lutheran Church, rural Courtland, the home congregation of my forefathers.)

 

4 Responses to “Celebrating the Bode family heritage”

  1. Dorothy Bowman's avatar Dorothy Bowman Says:

    I think the story on the reunion is fantastic! Also thanks so much for all of the pictures you sent. I do think the entire reunion went off very well. It was so good to see so many of you taking part in it. As you had told me, the church is beautiful and the photos you took of it are great. I sad to say, just do not see a reunion of that size happening again. Without the grandchildren of Karl and Anna planning it the next generation is just too far removed from enjoying each other. My photo from Ruth arrived today. My genealogy group is waiting to hear my report next month. Love to MY Little Princess, Dorothy

    • Audrey Kletscher Helbling's avatar Audrey Kletscher Helbling Says:

      Dorothy,
      Thanks to you, Rae, Reuben and Judy, we had one fantastic Bode family reunion! I appreciate all of your research on family history. I think I finally have all of the “Karls” straight now!

  2. Kathy Bode's avatar Kathy Bode Says:

    Hello, my name is Kathy Bode from Hawaii. I came across this on the internet and was hoping to gain some insight to if we have the same relatives. My father was Kenneth Bode, son of Joseph Billhausen Bode, son of Friedrich J Bode, son of Gerhart Heinrich Bode. I am hitting dead ends and can barely find any info on my Grandfather. Does any of these names sound familiar? Thank you and loved the picutures! Blessings!

    • Kathy, I did a double take on your name as my friend, Kathy Bode, died recently with her funeral just last week. She was married to a distant relative, Howard Bode.

      I pulled out my Bode family history book and found the name of Friedrich Bode, born in 1813 to Johann and Catharine (Busing) Bode in Hannover, Germany. Friedrich married Marie Stuenkel and they had nine children, their oldest being Friedrich, born in 1834. This son came to America with his maternal grandparents in 1850, later married Louise Seeman and, after her death, Marie Helberg. Given what is written in the history I have, I surmise that we descend from different Bode families. I didn’t find the names Kenneth, Joseph or Gerhart in my Bode history book. The Bode family I’m part of settled in Illinois before moving to Courtland, Minnesota. You will find my email on the ABOUT page of my blog if you wish to contact me directly. Good luck in your search for family info.


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