CLOSING UP THE CABIN (not ours) proved more than a work weekend. Beyond pulling in the dock, mowing, raking, trimming trees, gathering sticks, cleaning rain gutters, scrubbing rust stains from the shower, draining the water heater and more, this was about family.
A spirit of teamwork, of gratitude, of enjoying this place along Horseshoe Lake in Mission Township in the Brainerd lakes area, prevailed. And it was all because of family. I love the Helbling family, which I’ve been part of for 42 years by way of marrying into it.
Randy and I joined three of his sisters, their husbands, and a niece and her family last weekend on this property his youngest sister and husband so graciously share. What a gift this has been to us. I love spending time in the quiet northwoods, immersed in nature, creating memories not only with Randy, but also with our eldest daughter, her husband and our two grandchildren. Campfires with s’mores, always s’mores. Walks in Mission Park. Lakeside dining. Fishing and swimming. Ice cream from Lake Country Crafts & Cones. Pizza from Rafferty’s. Great beer and conversation at 14 Lakes Craft Brewing. Day trips into nearby small towns. Lounging on the beach reading a book. Lying in the hammock. Watching loons and eagles. Doing nothing.
And now, on this first weekend in October, we trekked three hours north to the cabin for the sole purpose of preparing the property for winter. An added bonus came in time with family. We worked together. Ate together. Laughed. Shared stories and memories and updates. We also built memories.
Homemade caramel rolls baked by Vivian reminded us of Mom Helbling, who died unexpectedly 31 years ago at the age of 59. Much too soon. Jon’s smash burgers reminded me of my mom, prompting me to share a story about the hamburgers she fried to hockey puck doneness, the reason I didn’t eat burgers up until several years ago. Jon’s were nothing like hers. He’s quite the cook, I discovered, as I enjoyed his stir fry, his scrambled eggs, his smash burgers.
I also enjoyed getting to know four of my great nieces and nephews. We played Hi Ho Cherry-O!, Go Fish and some panda bear game I never fully understood despite 8-year-old Emmett’s patience in explaining it to me. Autumn insisted I work on a princess puzzle with her, even though I insisted I do not do puzzles. I should note here that the Helbling family loves puzzles. Autumn insisted I help her, also insisting that I not quit. The first grader has a strong personality, a strength as I see it.
Three-year-old Quentin checked my heart several times as he did most family members after finding a stethoscope among the dress-up clothes. I also formed a firefighting crew, enlisting Emmett as acting fire chief when I had to step away to do some actual work. And sweet little redhead Annika, almost one and who looks a lot like a Who from Whoville, pretty much had her great aunt doing whatever she wished. That included jumping on my lap. My arms got quite the work-out.
And so these are the memories I gathered on this work weekend while squirrels scampered, acorns pelted roofs, the night wind howled, dust swirled, and pine needles and branches fell. Up north at the cabin is as much about place as it is about family and the memories we make there.
© Copyright 2024 Audrey Kletscher Helbling
Minnesota Prairie Roots 
oh, audrey, every moment of this place and the time you spend there, with the people you love, are absolutely precious and immeasurable in how they buoy your heart and soul. ❤
You are absolutely right, Beth.
Marvelous! Sounds perfect.
I feel incredibly blessed to be part of the loving Helbling family. And to have this cabin retreat, ah, heavenly.
What a wonderful weekend with family. Thank you for sharing with us.
Kathy Hagen
You are welcome. I knew I HAD to write about this work weekend and what family and the cabin mean to me.
Sounds like you had a great time while getting a lot of work done, together.
We did. Work is always easier when shared.
what a great memory! I would love to own a property like this some day to share with multiple generations of my family.
We feel blessed to have family who share their lake place with extended family.
Sounds like a perfect weekend to spend with loved ones! Hopefully on one of your visits north, our schedules will align and we can meet at one of those places you listed. There’s so many pretty spots to visit in our Up North Lake Country.😊
I love your area, Rose. And, yes, I too hope that we can connect sometime when we’re Up North.
Sounds totally amazing! I miss days like this. When my sister was alive we always spent time at a cabin in the summer. Since she has passed times have changed and we don’t seem to get together so much. Oh well. Things to ponder on and work on. Blessings.
I’m so sorry you lost your sister. It sounds like you created some beautiful memories during your summer cabin stays. Hold those memories in your heart, always.
what a wonderful weekend and even the work probably seemed far less work like. So happy a generous family continues to share with the rest of you. I treasure my sibling time in September so I understand how important it must be to you.
Exactly. Working together strengthened family bonds. I treasure the annual one-day Helbling family reunion. But a day is not enough time to strengthen bonds and make memories. So thankful for the generosity of Jon and Rosie in sharing their lake place.