Names of 21 known domestic violence homicide victims, including that of Barbara Larson from my community, are printed within those pages. She was shot to death on December 23, 2016, by her ex-husband at her workplace, the Faribault Area Chamber of Commerce and Tourism.
An index lists section titles like Homicide Statistics, Red Flags for Batterer Lethality, Findings & Recommendations, Our Charge to Minnesota Communities, Victim Stories…
This comprises the 2016 Femicide Report released Tuesday morning by the Minnesota Coalition for Battered Women. It is a document packed with statistics, facts, names, stories, educational information and recommendations all related to domestic violence homicides in Minnesota in 2016.
I challenge each of you to read this document by clicking here. It matters not whether you live in Minnesota, half-way across the country or on the other side of the world. If you read this report, you will better understand domestic violence, how it affects all of us and how you can make a difference.
Be forewarned that the victim stories, especially, are difficult to read. But those are necessary to put a face to this violence, to provide clarity, to effect change. This needs to be a collective effort.
I am especially grateful for places like HOPE Center, offering support to victims/survivors of violence (and those who love them) in Faribault and throughout Rice County. HOPE staffers participated in the MCBW’s Domestic Violence Homicide Memorial on Tuesday in St. Paul as did a captain from the Faribault Police Department.
Rather than attempt to summarize more of the 2016 Femicide Report, I leave you with this strong statement published in the Foreword:
Victims deserve to be believed, to be heard, and to be safe in their homes and in public. We still need to invest in resources, effective interventions, and in accountability measures that are victim centered, including prevention efforts. We can also work to end these homicides by being a resource ourselves for victims; as their family members, friends, faith leaders, employers, teachers, and neighbors. Services provide necessary tools and support, but it takes a community to keep a victim safe.
Allow me to highlight what I perceive to be particularly important words in that paragraph: believe, accountability, victim centered and prevention.
And finally: …it takes a community to keep a victim safe.
TELL ME: How is your community tackling domestic violence? What are you doing to make a difference?
© Copyright 2017 Audrey Kletscher Helbling
***believe, accountability, victim centered and prevention.
And finally: …it takes a community to keep a victim safe.***
I wish WISH wish I would’ve known THEN what I KNOW now.
Oh, dearest Kim, please understand that now, because you know, you are making a difference by sharing that knowledge. You are a voice for Kay and many others.
Readers, I direct you to Kim’s blog: http://myinnerchick.com/
It’s a must read and is written in memory of Kay, Kim’s sister.
POWERFUL . . . We have an issue in our neighborhood in regards to a domestic with siblings – the siblings have moved out of the neighborhood, but the felon remains. It is hard to not keep a watch out, especially in knowing there are a few single female homeowners living around this person. A good majority of the neighbors have their guard up and keep a watch on the comings and goings of the hood. It is nice to know your neighbors have your best interest at heart, have your back and are willing to help each other out. A community, awareness, and prevention is key.
Thanks so much for sharing.
Enjoy your day!
You are welcome, Renee.
I am thankful you and your neighbors recognize the situation and are remaining vigilant. Hopefully law enforcement and probation are doing the same. Accountability is also key, in my opinion. Take care.
I did read through the report. Thank you for bringing awareness to this issue.
You are welcome. And thank you for taking the time to read this report, Valerie.