I NEEDED TO LAUGH. So I picked up a book I started a while ago, but which I’d set aside. That book is Dear County Agent Guy by South Dakota humor writer Jerry Nelson.
First, let’s clarify “county agent” for those of you who may not have rural roots. A county agent (kinda an old school term) is someone specifically trained to share information and research with individuals and the community. Farmers might contact the county agent about issues related to crops or livestock, for example. In Minnesota the entity heading extension services is the University of Minnesota. The U’s efforts cover agriculture, natural resources, health and wellness, youth (4-H) and more.
In his book, the author, who grew up on and then operated a South Dakota dairy farm, focuses on farm life. I, too, was raised on a dairy farm, but then left for college when I turned seventeen. This collection of humorous short stories is so relatable. Many of Nelson’s stories could be mine, although I am German, not Scandinavian, and assuredly do not like lutefisk.

A GIFTED RURAL STORYTELLER
Nelson’s writing made me laugh out loud at stories overflowing with humor. He’s a heckuva storyteller. I could picture him gathered with a bunch of other farmers, and a few townies, at the local cafe. Drinking coffee. Shaking dice. Exchanging stories and advice. And laughter. Lots of laughter. But I’m glad he opted to compile his stories in a book. Nelson also writes a column for Dairy Star, a Minnesota-based publication for dairy farmers in eight states. He’s among a lengthy list of columnists that include Minnesota’s Princess Kay of the Milky Way. His work publishes in many other farm publications.
The book subtitle of Calf Pulling, Husband Training, and Other Curious Dispatches from a Midwestern Dairy Farmer pretty well summarizes the content therein. It helps to have a farm background when reading this collection. But even if you don’t, you can still read, learn and laugh.

MEMORIES GALORE FOR ME
There’s lots of nostalgia packed into these stories. How well I remember playing in the grove (the shelterbelt of trees surrounding our farm site), getting company (unexpected family and neighbors showing up to visit) and stretches of winter days stuck on the farm without electricity. Just as Nelson remembers. How well I recall Dad needing to assist a cow in giving birth (using a calf puller). How well I remember the earthy scent of freshly-turned soil.
While humor and nostalgia decidedly center Nelson’s stories, he also offers good, sound wisdom—about the importance of finding time to fish (or whatever) in a work-life balance, about appreciating family, about recognizing that life can end, just like that. Nelson nearly lost his life in a manure pit. He climbed inside to fix malfunctioning equipment when hydrogen sulfide gas overtook him. He was found floating face-up in the pit. His is a story of survival and resulting gratitude for every new sunrise.
Nelson’s writing shines with humor rooted in rural. I am grateful for his book, which shines sunshine into the world and made me laugh.
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THANK YOU to Noreen, who follows my blog from Washington state and who gifted me with a hardcover copy of Dear County Agent Guy. I am grateful for your sharing this collection with me.
© Copyright 2024 Audrey Kletscher Helbling


Audrey, I absolutely have to get this book! I grew up being a 4-Her, and then worked as a 4-H Youth Director in MN, IA and WI. What a hoot!
Plus, I am Norwegian, and I like Lutefisk, Lefsa and Rommegrot. Oh, I wish my family still had our traditional Christmas Eve Dinner.
Thanks for bringing a smile to my face today, Kyle😊
You are welcome, Kyle. You will LOVE this book.
This sounds like the perfect book for you, especially now. Also probably would be enjoyed by most anyone
Yes, it was a book I needed to read. And, yes, anyone would enjoy the writing and humor, rural or not.
Sounds like the perfect book to read to cleanse the palate . I love to interject books like this into my reading to keep it lighter. Great review.
It was a welcome change from reading “A Fever in the Heartland.” Nelson’s book is a positive collection of stories from the heartland.
We need all the laughter we can muster right now. I met with a friend this morning and something made us laugh so hard….it felt really good!
Oh, Valerie, I’m happy to hear your laughed really hard this morning. Yes, we need all the laughter we can muster right now. Just when I think I can’t hear anything worse, I do.
Jerry’s column is also in a publication called On the Farm, so I get to enjoy his humor bi-weekly. He has an outstanding vocabulary plus a clever way of looking at ordinary things. Good writer!
What a treat to read his writing bi-weekly. He certainly has a way with words.
Ramsey Cty Library has this book, have ordered it into my closest, can not put one more thing into this old house. I miss my rural roots, the kids peeled the potatoes. Our church is “flourishing” this year. Had to look it up, Ps. 92, even the KJV, my go-to in all the versions I’ve been gifted. FLS is having way more fun in that gym than we had! Happy Thanksgiving to you all!
Sandra, I’m thankful you were able to get this book through your library system. You’ll enjoy it. Happy Thanksgiving to you also!