Minnesota Prairie Roots

Writing and photography by Audrey Kletscher Helbling

Reflecting on graduation speeches by three generations of Minnesota women May 27, 2011

Wabasso High School, where my niece will give a speech tonight as class valedictorian. My mom and I also graduated from WHS, although the building looks much different than when we graduated in 1951 and 1974.

Arlene Bode Kletscher's 1951 graduation portrait.

SIXTY YEARS AGO 18-year-old Arlene Bode stepped onto the stage at Wabasso High School and gave a commencement speech, “Our Part in the Fight Against Communism.”

While that seems an unlikely, unsuitable, topic for an address by the class valedictorian, my mom says you need to remember the time period in which she wrote and gave that speech.

This was 1951, at the height of the Cold War, the era of bomb shelters and fear of the Soviet Union.

My mom espoused patriotism, encouraging her southwestern Minnesota classmates “to be patriotic and vote…so we can keep our freedom,” she recalls. She has a copy of that speech tucked inside her WHS diploma.

She found the speech recently when pulling out her diploma to show her granddaughter, Hillary Kletscher, who graduates tonight, also from Wabasso High.

Hillary, like her 79-year-old grandmother, is the class valedictorian and will speak at commencement. When I texted Hillary early Thursday afternoon, she hadn’t yet titled her speech. But, she said, the “main subject is change and how it’s good but we have to hold onto what we learn from the past.”

I won’t be there to hear my niece’s address. But I intend to ask her for a copy, just like I plan to get a copy of my mom’s speech, which I’ve never seen. These are parts of our family history, words reflecting the time periods in which they were written, words of hope and wisdom and patriotism (at least in my mom’s case).

Hillary will step onto the WHS stage tonight and speak on change, yet remembering the past.

Audrey Kletscher Helbling, 1974 WHS graduate.

That my mom kept her speech through six decades impresses me. I say that specifically because I have no idea where to find the speech I gave at my graduation from Wabasso High School in 1974. It’s packed in a box somewhere in a closet in my home, but I possess neither the time nor energy to dig it out.

I remember only that, as class salutatorian, my farewell address included a poem. What poem and by whom, I do not recall.

In 2006, my daughter Miranda graduated as valedictorian of Faribault High School and gave a commencement speech. Given that occurred only five years ago, I should remember the content. I don’t. I recall only that she held up a test tube to make a point.

I am also making a point here. Thankfully much has changed in the 60 years since my mom spoke on “Our Part in the Fight Against Communism.” While the world today remains in turmoil, at least the intense fear, felt by the Class of 1951 during the Cold War, no longer exists.

We have also moved beyond the turbulent 60s and 70s, a time of rebellion, anti-establishment, and anti-war sentiments and discontent over the Vietnam War experienced by my class, the Class of 1974.

By 2006, when my second daughter graduated, we as a nation were beginning to recover from 9/11, yet we lived in an increasingly security-focused society.

Today my niece graduates in a day of continuing economic uncertainty, when young people are struggling to find jobs and when Baby Boomers like myself worry about our jobs and retirement.

Yet, through it all—the Cold War, Vietnam, September 11 and a challenging economy—we remain four strong women living in a free country where we, individually, spoke freely, representing the classes of 1951, 1974, 2006 and 2011.

© Copyright 2011 Audrey Kletscher Helbling

 

6 Responses to “Reflecting on graduation speeches by three generations of Minnesota women”

  1. Your family is so inspirational, Audrey! What strong, intelligent women 🙂

    • Audrey Kletscher Helbling Says:

      Thank you. It is rather remarkable that four of us from the same family would rank at the tops of our high school classes, although I was second, not first. One of my best friends ranked highest.

      I am so looking forward to reading my mom’s and niece’s speeches and possibly sharing the content of my mom’s speech here. I mean, a high school graduation speech titled “Our Part in the Fight Against Communism” is certainly historically noteworthy.

  2. Bernie Says:

    Awesome…the power of women!!
    I love school and learning!
    My dream was to be a teacher, but since I never went to college (only vo-tech) it never happened, plus I didn’t think I had the confidence back then to do that. Oh well, raised three college educated kids, two whom are teachers..and my last one heading to college to study to be a teacher….my other boy is in grain merchandising.
    My favorite teacher was Mrs Hagen in Vesta, 6th grade…did you have her as a teacher?
    Hope you can find those speeches!

    • Audrey Kletscher Helbling Says:

      But you are a teacher given you are a daycare provider.

      And, you are a teacher, having raised three successful, college-educated children.

      Yes, Mrs. Hagen was my teacher and I liked her too. But my favorite was a junior high English teacher, Mrs. Sales. She knew her grammar, emphasized spelling too and I learned so much from her. My love for language really blossomed via her teaching.

      Now, as for math…, to this day I detest numbers and math and that has a lot to do with how/who taught math to me. Teachers, you can have a positive, or negative, influence on a student. Of course, you already know that.

  3. Bernie Says:

    Wow! Good for all of you who spoke at your graduation. Your family is the first I have heard of who had several speakers in one family. What a wonderful thing.
    Your grad. picture is cute!

    • Audrey Kletscher Helbling Says:

      I got copies of my mom’s and niece’s speeches this weekend and intend to share some highlights. Today I’m focusing on Memorial Day and will eventually get some images up here from the parade and ceremony in Faribault.

      That grad pic of me is just a snapshot taken in a different town, with a second cousin who had graduated. I don’t really have many photos of myself from then. Just like now. I’m always the one taking the pictures.


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